How painful is deep anal sex? I am a bisexual and i could never receive more than 5 inches before feeling a sharp pain inside. I dont push it though, but what to do to make it go deeper? and is it worth it? |
Whoa whoa whoa... You need to take it easy and I hope you aren't just jamming it up there. You should only do what you feel is most comfortable.
If a guy tells me that it hurts to go any deeper, I -stop- and that is what your guy should do too. It may be that it is hitting an obstruction and that is why it is painful. If you want it to go further, buy a toy and play with it until you are comfortable with anything more than 5 inches. |
How deep do I have to douche before having anal sex? I have a douche I bought from a sex store that connects to the shower and I usually keep it in until I feel the pressure. Then I let it sit for a few minutes until I let it out and repeat. I do this a few times, trying to get everything out-- but I feel like I might be over-cleaning and upsetting the PH balance. I just want to be clean enough as to not embarrass myself. |
| Usually guys try the gerbil test. Release the gerbil up your rectum and if he fights to come back out, it's not clean enough. |
How does one have deep gay anal sex if they can only take about 5 inches before extreme pain.? Im a gay bottom (and a virgin) and the idea of getting anal turns me on so much. I have experimented before wiht different makeshift toys and the feel of being penetrated isnt bad anymore. And I can get use to the width of an object just fine at my entry way. But my problem is depth. I recently got another makeshift toy (thats a good 10 inches) but is incredibly thin (just an inch in width, not circumference) hoping i could gradually see how deep I could receive. It seems after 5 inches I have horrible pain and it feels like i am coming up to an unpassable wall (like an organic intestinal wall no feces). I have tried twisting the toy and pushing it in at all sorts of various angles and nothing. Just extreme horrible pain and the fear I am going to to hurt myself tot the degree of winding up in the ER. Im not actually trying to take a 10 inch toy but my BF's penis is around 6.5-7.5 inches and I am trying to prepare myself for him when it does come time to lose my virginity. DOes anyone have tips to increase the depth of what I can take without injuring myself. Also is this not a wall but a curve i just have to ease my way into and get used too? If so how shoudl i do that without rupturing something (ITS SO PAINFUL) and what angle do I take I tried matching a diagram I saw and that didnt work. Im thinking about just giving up on anal all together or finding a BF witha small penis lol. |
| you could tr and get some numbing cream. they do make it for that purpose at the sex shop |
Pain from anal sex: going too deep. why? pain from anal sex: going too deep. why?
i have had alot of anal sex- this pain is not comming from the start where you slowly go in with lots of lube. i know about all that so i dont need to be told again.
the first time i had anal sex i was fine and felt great. the second time was with a different guy with a larger penis than the first (larger by like an inch or so)
anyway. there is a point where once he goes in too deep i get a pain i dont know how to describe it- its not too painful but still annoying.
any ideas?? thanks guys! xo |
He is probably getting past the second shinxter. That is the one that senses when you gotta poo, and will cause cramps when bypassed. Me and my wife use alot of toys on eachother. I found that when I use my 12inch doubledong, I experianced that problem at first.. I just pushed it in to that point and left it.. it went from cramp to pleasure.. maybe have him go ALL the way in and hold it? If that doesnt work, have him NOT go in all the way!
He could be hitting your intestinal curve!
Had a simular experiance with hitting a girls cervix once :( |
How deep is it possible to go while ANAL INTERCOURSE? My boyfriend hasn't got the smallest dick so he hits my cervix pretty easily (and average vagina is only 3 to 4 inches deep), but I was wondering: how deep can he go during anal sex?
And what are the reasons, let me put it straight: if he goes too deep he hits my ****? :(
And can I help it somehow, stop eating OR WHAT?? Take a **** :DD? |
| I promise that as long as you and your boyfriend use lots of lube, you will be fine. The vagina has an ending which is the cervix. However the anus and the rectum never really ends. As long as he isn't over 9 inches you will be fine and should feel no pain. However remember to use lots of lube and stay safe. |
What is the best way to clean myself for anal sex? I like having anal sex. But I/m really selfconcious about smells, accidents excetera. I just want to know how can I get a really deep clean so I don't have to be thinking about this every time I do it. I can't even enjoy it cause accidents are all I can think about. |
You should clean there( of cause you know where LOL) first, use some cleaning tolls( can be purchased online). Lube and condom is needed while you & your partner is enjoying, and some sex toys would make things much better!
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Is it normal to have pain deep in your rectum (or somewhere internally) after having anal sex? I met a black guy in a locker room and bent over and let him penetrate me. We lubed it up and he pushed gently for several minutes until my anus relaxed enough for it to go in. He had a massive penis. Then he pushed it in repeatedly. It felt good but also kind of hurt (deep inside, not the anus). Should it feel this way?
I am a bisexual man. My anus burned and itched afterwards as well. And I have had to fart a lot more than usual. |
| It may be normal, but it's not healthy. You should probably see a doctor, and listen to the doctor's recommendations about whether it's a good idea for you to have anal sex. |
How do I avoid getting feces on my lover's penis during anal sex? So I've been sleeping with a man with a very large unit who likes to go very deep. It feels incredible but things have come up brown a few times now, even when I thought I had planned well enough for it not to happen. Any suggestions as far as eating (maybe what I should be eating) and pooping (as in when should I try to sync up my bathroom visit with my butt sex romps) ?
Thanks! |
| whatever you do, don't eat Taco Bell! |
What woulWho loves receiving anal sex and getting a hot load shot inside them?d you like to ask? I am curious as to who besides myself enjoys a HUGE throbbing uncut cock ******* and pounding away at their *** and the feeling of a pair of huge balls slapping and beating you against your *** before they unleash and pump a copious amounts of boiling hot *** load as deep as that huge cock will reach? |
Not a guy, but that sounds like an enjoyable Tuesday afternoon.
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