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|What is it about lesbianism that fascinates men?|
Why are men intrigued and drawn to lesbians? The sight of two women holding hands or arms always piques most men's interest. I even know some gay men who admit that they are "turned on" at the sight of two women making passionate love. Men buy erotic magazines and adult DVDs of lesbian erotica. Men nowadays seem to consider a threesome with two bisexual girls the most crucial sexual conquest. However, is it right to compel girls to engage in lesbian acts just to satisfy a man? Shouldn't it be the woman who decides to "reward" her man with the joys of sharing a Sapphic encounter, which in itself is a very personal experience?
|Of course you are exactly right - sexuality should certainly not be forced, or even pressured in any way. Girls and women should be able to choose whatever sexual activities they want, and their limits should be respected.|
But as for why it's a turn on, there are a couple of major factors IMHO.
First, and most obvious, is the fact that heterosexual guys like women! Two women is twice as attractive - two (or four, as the case may be...) of all the bits and pieces that we find sexually attractive and stimulating. That's without even getting into the whole "variety" aspect of sexuality that both men and women sometimes find stimulating - two different minds and bodies with different features, attitudes, and outlooks are easier to find in two people of the opposite sex than in one.
Second is the fantasy factor that many guys have (but few will admit!). The ogling guy at some level thinks that he and he alone would be the one able to sexually stimulate not just one, but two women who are aren't generally attracted to men. This also avoids the complication of male competition and its resulting insecurity that would be present if a male were in the picture. Am I as well endowed as the other guy? as goodlooking? etc. Latent homophobia also plays a part - "Oooh, I might accidentally touch something I don't want to" can put a damper on anything but a two women / one male fantasy.
In all honesty, women are much more attractive figures than men, and I can certainly understand why both men and women would be more attracted to them.
|Good sapphic love novels to read?|
the last time i asked this it got removed so i hope most of you know what sapphic means, well i looking for a novel in this type of "genre". nowadays there are all these books like the notebook(which was good... kinda) but there arent any with girls wtf? well at least that i have heard of... so what would you suggest.. there has at least got to be some sex in the story.. lol thanks
|Try boldstrokesbooks.com. We have read many of these and they are what you are looking for.|
|Why are men fascinated by lesbians?|
Why are men intrigued and drawn to lesbians? The sight of two women holding hands or arms always piques most men's interest. I even know some gay men who admit that the sight of lesbians making love is a turn-on for them. Men buy erotic magazines and adult DVDs of lesbian erotica. Men nowadays seem to consider a threesome with two bisexual girls the most crucial sexual conquest. However, is it right to compel girls to engage in lesbian acts just to satisfy a man? Shouldn't it be the woman who decides to "reward" her man with the joys of sharing a Sapphic encounter, which in itself is a very personal experience?
|You know damn well why, Gail, love of my life. Men want to "conquer" not "cure." After they get their orgasm fix from two bisexual girls, they couldn't care if those chicks keep going at each other until doomsday. The male fantasy has been met. And some of the respondents are right-- no one wants to see Rosie O. get it on with her girlfriend, nice-looking though her girlfriend is. However, I don't think many guys were pulling their puds at the thought of Ellen D. and Anne H. going at it. But to be fair and balanced, I don't think anyone would want to see the Roseanne/Tom Arnold honeymoon videos either. And men who get off on seeing lesbians go at it aren't "closet cases" as the more radically inclined gay and lesbian respondents claim-- it's because they're walking testosterone sacks doing what comes natural to them whenever a hot broad enters their field of vision. Luv ya!|
|Does he really respect lesbians?|
If a guy claims to totally respect lesbians, has lesbian friends etc. but still looks at lesbian porn for his own gratification, does he truly respect them? I know it's a strange question, but it popped into my mind following a personal experience and I wondered what opinions people might have.
A good friend of mine has very close friends who are lesbians. He seems totally indifferent to their sexuality (i.e. he's not one of these people who seems to think lesbians were created for his own erotic pleasure!). However, I found (I wasn't looking for it, I just found it!) a load of sapphic/lesbian/girl-on-girl porn on his computer and it's left me a little confused as to whether he really does respect lesbianism as much as he claims to...
|If you can only respect groups you have no sexual interest in at all then I only respect guyren and animals. |
I think that if he was spying on lesbians having sex then this would be disrespectful. But looking at porn stars having nude fun is just that and nothing more. The porn stars would not consider it to be disrespectful so why should anyone else.
If he was looking at straight porn does that mean he has no respect for any living man or woman as he finds images of nude men and women attractive?
Generally men like lesbian porn because they find nude men unattractive (or are too attracted too them for their own comfort) and not because they think women were created just to satisfy them. I know a lot of women who like porn with gay men in it.
As I said before if finding someone or something sexually appealing is a form of disrespect then I personally won't ever claim to respect adult humans again.
|Am I a lesbian, or bisexual? Help?|
I'm confused. Really confused. Ever since I can remember, I've liked girls. My first kiss was a little girl who went to day camp with me when I was six years old. I developed a mad crush on one of my friends when I was twelve years old, and several other girls as well, all throughout junior high and high school. In college, I had sex with three different women, and I've slept with a few women since then.
....But I've always dated and been attracted to men, too. I've been married to men, I've had sex with men, and enjoyed it-- though I find it difficult to reach orgasm during intercourse, when I've never had a problem reaching orgasm with women.
I don't like straight porn, I only get turned on watching girl-on-girl, or guy-on-guy scenes.
I'm just confused. I can see myself spending my life with a man, and I can see myself spending my life with a woman...only for some reason, I tend to picture a life with a man more so than a woman, even though my sexual attractions tend to lean to the Sapphic.
What is going on with me?
You prefer one way more than the other, but you don't mind either.
|Is a women's music festival a good place to meet ladies to date?|
The UPS lady who stops by my work is a really great gal, and even though I have flirted with her tons, she has always sort of laughed me off. I would really like to meet a woman like her, though; she's a really sensible sort, and a woman with a great sense of humour. I liked her right away the first time I saw her, with her sassy mullet and plaid jacket, bent over the open hood of the UPS truck that had broken down in the parking lot; she had that sucker up and running in fifteen minutes!
Well, since she just doesn't seem to be interested in me, I am hoping maybe to find someone like her, and one day I overheard her on her cell phone in the parking lot of my work, talking with her friend about a women's music festival they are attending in November. When she got off the phone I asked her about it, and she said it is a festival for women that she and her friends will be attending. Well, I thought right away that if there would be ladies there as great as her, I wanted in on it, and asked her if I could go.
She sort of looked away and said that men weren't exactly welcome. I was puzzled by this and asked, "What? You mean men aren't allowed at it?" She said no, that wasn't it, but that there weren't going to be any men there, and she thought I might be uncomfortable with only a bunch of women. Jesus, it sounded like paradise to me! Tons of women, all drinking, rocking to good music, and me the only man in the whole damn place! Talk about the best odds! I'm guaranteed to score!
I begged her to take me, really pleaded, but she said there weren't going to be any performers there I would like; the bill is going to be KD Lang, Melissa Etheridge, The Indigo Girls, Tracy Chapman....well, that lineup did totally suck to me, but all I could think about was the horny women who would be there, craving for a man, so I lied and said I LOVED all those performers. She finally relented and said okay, if I was really a fan, just to please not draw too much attention to myself, and not say anything misogynistic. I'm not sure what that word means; probably just some crazy chick crap, you know how chicks come up with the weirdest stuff. Anyway, I'm in!!!!! I'm going to be in hoochie heaven!!!!!
I have to say, though, this festival has some weird slogans; they are using slogans that say freaky stuff like, "Save the turkeys, eat fish this November at the Womyn's Music Festival SoCal, 2009." What the hell does that mean?! They misspelled "women's" too; talk about some crazy broads! They also have a slogan that says, "Plenty of fish in the sea---dive on in this November!" Geez, probably this festival is sponsored by some weird New Age thing. I think this has to be the case, as the festival is sponsored by "Sapphic Sister Soldiers"; sounds like a coven of some sort.
Anyhow, has anyone been to a festival like this before? What are my chances of scoring with some hot women and what can I expect?
I KNOW all you dudes are totally jealous of me!!!!!
|Uhmm I thought you were married I answered a post for you yesterday (my wifes mad at me cause i don't wanna take care of the baby). are you seriously going to cheat on your wife ? Ups chick is gonna know what your in for when shes there ... you should be ashamed|
|LADY SOVEREIGN is a lesbian I knew it haha I'm Good.?|
Rumor has it the self-titled “biggest midget in the game” may be doing double time as the “smallest lesbian in the closet.”
According to Minnesota Daily, a student newspaper at the University of Minnesota in Minneapolis, British rapper LADY SOVEREIGN, who enjoys a significant lesbian fan base, was spotted on Jan. 14 at the Gay ’90s, a gay entertainment complex in downtown Minneapolis.
What was particularly of interest to the Minnesotans who saw her was that she didn’t have a show in town that week.
Several eyewitnesses claimed they spotted the little lady making out with her supposed girlfriend, named Andrea, a 19-year-old from the area, the paper reported.
Just a “public warning” for all those ladies out there. She might be Sapphic, but she might also be taken. Keep your eyes peeled.
lol I mean I knew from the start.
Question - What do you think did you ever think she was?
Question 2 - Girls do you think she is hot I do.
her music vids.
I Got You Dancing.
her first music vid love me or hate me.
|oh my god... lady sovereign is SO hot... you have no idea how attracted to her i am and have been ever since i saw the love me or hate me video. andrea? what a lucky ***** ahaha. i've had gaydar on lady sovereign for years now ;]|
|This is a parody.......................c…|
A parody in contemporary usage, is a work created to mock, comment on, or poke fun at an original work, its subject, author, style, or some other target, by means of humorous, satiric or ironic imitation.by slightly altering the wording in well-known poems. or altering them greatly. they do not need the original poets consent to do and it is considered good form of course to refer to the work you are parodying...as how else is the reader to know whom you are spoofing.
This is an example of parody
a spoof on answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…
by The Genuine Mighty Iano
I am A Diva
I am the sexiest of girls,
men buy me diamonds gold and pearls.
I'm toned and fit and blonde and short,
from miles around the men pay court.
My blue eyes make them weak in knees
and oh so eager to appease -
why I don't even ask them please . . .
I make them beg cause I'm a tease.
I am madonna come to life,
all men want me to be their wife.
I conquer hearts with languid ease
and if they ask for mine I freeze.
Whenever I pass through a door
I laugh as their chins hit the floor.
E'en Sapphic slaves can't help but turn -
so filled with lust for me they burn.
Their lady love they all soon spurn
and never more will they return.
I have such wicked wicked ways,
enticing all just by my gaze.
My skin is firm and tanned and smooth,
my honeyed words do serve to soothe
the fever in man's lustful heart -
pierced by cherubic cupid's dart.
I cannot fail, I am God's gift.
My charm will wow you sure and swift.
I make men feel desired and young,
My charms are praised, my beauty sung,
Enticing all with silver-tongue,
My name and fame are so far-flung.
For me men would lay down and die
and do so with a grateful sigh!
|And some men brag behind their walls|
And blow up great big rubber dolls
We don't know and that's the catch
If the description is really a match
But oh me, oh my, oh goodness sakes
What hilarity he makes
His lack of humility almost endears
This poetic fellow to his peers
It is his badge; it is his claim
To belittle and try to shame
And to brag about his skills
And all the lady's hearts he wills
To love him, please him then give thanks
But how do we know they aren't all skanks?
I acually have some fondness for him now, though I don't think he cares much for me. LOL
|Why are men fascinated by lesbians?|
Why are men intrigued and drawn to lesbians? The sight of two women holding hands or arms always piques most men's interest. Men buy erotic magazines and adult DVDs of lesbian erotica. Men nowadays seem to consider a threesome with two bisexual girls the most crucial sexual conquest. However, is it right to compel girls to engage in lesbian acts just to satisfy a man? Shouldn't it be the woman who decides to "reward" her man with the joys of sharing a Sapphic encounter, which in itself is a very personal experience?
|some straight men watch too much porn. that stuff they watch is just fantasy. no "real" lesbian is going to let a straight man watch, let alone join in. we're lesbians! that means we're attracted to women! not men! to "compel" girls to engage in acts to "satisfy" the man is selfish as well. unless the girls are bi and into threesomes, then it ain't gonna happen.|